I woke up this morning headed to the computer and opened my work email. I had a reminder come up “Birthday – Kent”. I then paused a few minutes and contemplated his life. I often find myself thinking of my brother. Even though it’s been 8 years since his passing I think about him at least every other day. I think of how much fun we could have had together had he still been here.

I often think of how proud he must be of me in coaching high school football at our alma mater. Part of why I coach is because I know he loved to and would love to do it again. During this offseason when I was adjusting some of the blocking schemes for our plays I was pounding my head about it and sat back and thought “Man! I wish I could pick Kent’s brain on this”. Kent was a student of the game, he LOVED football. He loved the impact he had on young kids. I too feel that same feeling of having a positive impact on young men and helping be a role model and a good example of what hard work will get you.

I remember as a kid watching WWF wrestler Hulk Hogan and Andre the Giant with Kent. Then later on when WWF became popular again I remember watching Stone Cold Steve Austin and The Rock. Kent loved the big egos of these wrestlers and had a great talent of imitating their acts. We could both relate to these athletes. I know some may roll your eyes or think this is ridiculous but these guys are athletes and truly bust their buts to be in the shape they are. Kent and I both played at BYU 10 years apart from each other. We both had fond (or not so fond) memories of killing ourselves to get in the best shape we could possibly be to be able to set foot on a field where you’d find 60,000+ fans cheering. The electricity of that experience is what drove us both to be the best we could be. That is one of the reasons we relate to these wrestlers.

Recently I watched Wresltemania 28, the “Showcase of the Immortals” as they call it. Yes to this day I still watch wrestling, partly because it fills a void of the many voids Kent has left. I thought a lot of Kent and how he would have loved to watch this with me. One of the promos was with one of our favorite wrestlers The Rock. I don’t care who you are if you watch this video and don’t get excited to go to the gym and workout you have a screw loose! Ok, maybe that is more directed at anyone who has played sports.

 

Of all the men in my life next to my father Kent has had the greatest impact on me as an individual and in whom I have become today. He helped in showing by example and also teaching me about hard work and how determination and passion can help you go a long way. I will always hold those memories of him close to me.

So to Kent, I know I’m a day early on this but happy birthday you old fart! Smile I miss you my dear brother, I can’t wait to see you again! God be with you til we meet again!

 

Meag was born and raised back east and grew up in Red Sox nation. A few years back when the Red Sox won the World Series for the first time in a very long time I remember we both were glued to the seats watching their clutch play coming back down 3-1 to the Yankees to win the series and go on to win the World Series. Since Griffey was with the Mariners (back in their glory days) back when I was younger I have never watched so much baseball. It was a fun time to watch the Red Sox win the World Series.

This weekend I was reading some feeds through a cool iPad app called Flipboard that a friend of mine recommended. I found a link to this video that is very touching. I never knew that any baseball team held a Disability Awareness Day. Having a daughter with special needs makes me feel grateful for people/organizations who setup events like this. This video is touching especially when the young man stumbles with singing the national anthem and the crowd joins in and helps finish the song. Very cool.

 

Meag loves Italian food, almost to the point of wanting it every meal. For a few years it felt like that was all she would make. I commented a few times about the frequency of the pasta we would devour. She has since toned down the times we eat pasta, almost to the point of not eating it.

Meag’s cooking skills are far superior to mine, and recently she discovered a recipe for a spaghetti and meatballs. When she used to make spaghetti she would put ground meat in the sauce, it was good, but nothing like these meatballs.

There are a few key things to keep in mind when making this recipe. First, adding butter to increase the richness of the sauce is key. Second, don’t worry if you think the meatballs look burnt, that’s a good thing and don’t rinse out that pan, you want to mix the pan and those yum-yum’s on the bottom of it with the meatballs and sauce. Third, drain your pasta, you work on a sauce and meatballs this hard you don’t want it watered down. Fourth, and most important, go buy the canned crushed or whole San Marzano canned tomatoes, they are expensive ($5 per can) but SOOO worth it, in the Seattle area you can find them at Whole Foods, and I believe QFC and possibly Fred Meyer. Fifth, if you don’t have time to make the sauce, that’s too bad, but you can use a canned sauce instead and it’s still very good, just not as good.

I’m telling you right now, you could eat this off a car bumper, it’s that dang good!

meatballs
(This is what ours ended up looking like. We had some blanched asparagus with it.)

Ingredients

  • 1 small onion, grated
  • 3 garlic cloves, minced
  • 1 large egg
  • 1/4 cup dried bread crumbs
  • 3 tablespoons ketchup
  • 1/4 cup chopped fresh Italian parsley leaves
  • 1/4 cup grated Parmesan
  • 1/4 cup grated Pecorino Romano
  • 1 teaspoon salt
  • 1/4 teaspoon ground black pepper
  • 1 pound ground dark turkey meat
  • 3 tablespoons olive oil
  • 26 ounces Simple Tomato Sauce, recipe follows

Directions

Add the onion, garlic, egg, bread crumbs, ketchup, parsley, Parmesan, Pecorino, salt and pepper to a large bowl and blend. Mix in the turkey. Shape the turkey mixture into 1 1/4-inch-diameter meatballs. Place on a large plate or baking sheet.

Heat the oil in a heavy large frying pan over medium-high heat. Add the meatballs and saute until browned on all sides, about 5 minutes. Turn off heat. Transfer the meatballs to a plate. Pour off any excess oil. Add the marinara sauce, about 3 cups. Return all the meatballs to the pan. Turn the heat to medium-low and simmer until the sauce thickens slightly and the flavors blend, 15 to 20 minutes. Season the sauce, to taste, with salt and pepper.

Transfer the meatball mixture to a serving bowl. Serve with toothpicks.

Simple Tomato Sauce:

  • 1/2 cup extra-virgin olive oil
  • 1 small onion, chopped
  • 2 cloves garlic, chopped
  • 1 stalk celery, chopped
  • 1 carrot, chopped
  • Sea salt and freshly ground black pepper
  • 2 (32-ounce) cans crushed tomatoes
  • 4 to 6 basil leaves
  • 2 dried bay leaves
  • 4 tablespoons unsalted butter, optional

In a large casserole pot, heat oil over medium high heat. Add onion and garlic and saute until soft and translucent, about 2 minutes. Add celery and carrots and season with salt and pepper. Saute until all the vegetables are soft, about 5 minutes. Add tomatoes, basil, and bay leaves and simmer covered on low heat for 1 hour or until thick. Remove bay leaves and check for seasoning. If sauce still tastes acidic, add unsalted butter, 1 tablespoon at a time to round out the flavors.

Add half the tomato sauce into the bowl of a food processor. Process until smooth. Continue with remaining tomato sauce.

If not using all the sauce, allow it to cool completely and pour 1 to 2 cup portions into freezer plastic bags. This will freeze up to 6 months.

Yield: 6 cups
Prep Time: 15 minutes
Cook Time: 1 hour and 20 minutes
Ease of Preparation: Easy

You can find this recipe also on FoodNetwork.com

 

Over the years Meag and I have cooked our fair share of spiral-cut hams. We’ve learned a lot of cooking tips by simply watching the Food Network. One of the great tips we learned a few years ago was how to prevent eating dried out Easter hams. It seemed like every year no matter what we did we would always end up eating dried ham which we’d cover in gravy or some sauce. This also was the case growing up. The solution is simple…don’t buy a spiral-cut ham, but a ham that is whole that you cut yourself. The fact that the ham is pre-cut causes more of the surface of the ham to be exposed to the baking process thus drying out the meat. Since learning this trick we have never partaken of dry ham for Easter…it’s a beautiful thing!

Our favorite sauce to glaze our ham with is from Ina Garten’s yummy recipe. She loves to use citrus flavors quite a bit. This specific glaze is sweet but the mustard balances out the flavors to give a real rich taste to the ham. We also reserve about half of the glaze for dipping sauce, yum! Makes me want more.

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Here’s a link to the recipe

Ingredients

  • 1 (14 to 16-pound) fully cooked, spiral-cut smoked ham on the bone

The Sauce

  • 6 garlic cloves
  • 8 1/2 ounces orange marmalade
  • 1/2 cup Dijon mustard
  • 1 cup light brown sugar, packed
  • 1 orange, zested
  • 1/4 cup freshly squeezed orange juice

Directions

Preheat the oven to 350 degrees F. Place the ham in a heavy roasting pan.

Mince the garlic in a food processor fitted with the steel blade. Add the marmalade, mustard, brown sugar, orange zest, and orange juice and process until smooth. Pour the glaze over the ham and bake for 1 hour, until the ham is fully heated and the glaze is well browned. Serve hot or at room temperature.

 

Meag’s brother Jeff is getting married in Boston next week. We talked about traveling to the east coast for the event as a family. However, after checking the cost of airfare, rental car, and hotel (upwards of $2,500) we decided we couldn’t afford that much. Instead, Meag has headed off to Boston leaving me with the girls through next Wednesday.

Having to deal with being single for a few days is ok, but I cannot imagine doing it for good. I am always impressed with those individuals who can balance their life without a significant other. May God bless them.

There are so many things needed to be done that it can quickly become overwhelming to even think about. Laundry, dishes, picking up around the house, vacuum, etc. and not to mention going to work to pay for all the crap you have. That’s a tough gig. I know quite a few women that are single and have kids at home and some handle it better than others. The one thing that sticks out most of the one’s that handle it best are the one’s that place family first. The one’s that read scriptures with their kids, pray with them, eat meals with them, just making it a priority to spend time with them. These are all easy things to say and great ideas. However, it’s hard work to get something like that accomplished. Often times one has to sacrifice to achieve that.

I find myself struggling with the same things in my life. As I start to get older in my field of work it’s critical to stay up to date with the latest technology. You always have people coming along trying to out work you. Lately I feel I get out worked a lot. Mainly because my job is not my first priority. My family is. I’m at a crossroads in my life where it’s more important to me to spend time with my girls reading books to them rather than work on that one extra debugging problem I have to fix. Things will slip. What I struggle with mainly is the stability of my job. I need to have a stable job to have a stable home. When I say stable I mean keeping the priority of meeting the needs of my family. I some times feel that the day to day things I do are tedious and a waste of time in the grand scheme of things. Ten years down the road I won’t be able to articulate exactly what I did in 2011 with regards to work, but I would bet I could remember some things (may be just a few) that I did in 2011 that involved my family. This particular event where Meag is away for the first time in our girls lives (yes she’s never spent a day away from either of them since they’ve been born) is something I’ll remember. I feel that is a good sign and that I’m on the right track to better days ahead.

 

There is an art to blocking on the offensive line. It takes great skill and athletic players to get the job done. I watched an NFL game last weekend and noticed a great example of a combination block, which is essentially a block where two lineman block a down lineman and one of them releases once the other offensive lineman has taken control of the defender and will pick up a linebacker to block. In this short video clip the Left Guard (#73) and Center for the Green Bay Packers execute a perfect combo block on the Chicago Beards. It’s a beautiful thing!

 

The girls finished their first ballet class at Auburn Parks & Rec in Auburn, WA last Fall. After finishing they’ve been constantly asking when it will startup again. Finally the time has arrived! Today we woke up at the butt crack of dawn and made our way down to the Auburn Parks & Rec center to go to ballet practice. This time they have a new teacher. The girls seem to not mind having a new teacher. They don’t confuse her name with the previous teachers name. After finishing the first dance class we went to Donut Star a local donut shop that has the best buttermilk glazed donut! Macy wanted a “pink one” and Maddie wanted one with sprinkles. They both scarfed down their donuts….well Macy never finishes anything but she did enjoy 3/4’s of her donut and a couple of licks of Meag’s glazed raspberry filling. In the fall the girls dance was in the early evening on a Thursday…not a good time for me and my schedule. This time around Saturday mornings work out perfectly and we’ll be able to fatten up on donuts after each practice. Life is good!

(Macy at the donut shop)

(Maddie and her “choclatie face”)

 

I’ve been working on the website for the Kentridge Chargers high school football team. I’m pretty pleased with the results. I used Silver Stripe CMS to manage the content. Check it out!

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After Thanksgiving dinner, which was delicious Meag and I treated ourselves to one of the most delightful snacks. It was simply a cracker, Saint Angel cheese, and Adriatic Fig Spread from Whole Foods. The cheese was so creamy, similar to a Brie cheese. We got the cheese at Whole Foods as well. If you’re craving a snack you should try this!

fig spread and cheese snack

 

Next to being a husband and father, nothing is more rewarding in life than coaching, specifically coaching football, the greatest sport known to man. I love football for many reasons, the work ethic it teaches kids at a young age, the discipline and determination to fulfill one’s goals, and for “my boys”, that’s what I call my offensive lineman since I don’t have sons, the most selfless position in all of sports. Think about each sport and players that play in each sport. Think about an offensive lineman, each one of them probably works harder than any other player on the team in the weight room in the off season and for what? for glory to go to the running backs, quarter backs, and wide receivers? ABSOLUTELY. As a former offensive lineman in high school and college, nothing is more rewarding than to perform a great block and have your running back follow your block for a touchdown. As a lineman you never receive all the attention that the backs do, you just go out there, play after play and DO YOUR JOB! It IS BY FAR the most selfless position in ALL of sports. I LOVE being a lineman and I love having the privilege and opportunity to coach high school football and be “the offensive line coach”.

Another thing I love is country music, no other music speaks more to the heart and soul of this great country than country music. For the most part country music is clean and has great messages. One particular message is a song performed by Kenny Chesney titled “The Boys of Fall”. It’s about football! I found this very moving video and it made me think how lucky I am to be able to coach high school football and be a part in shaping young men’s lives forever. Our season ended a few weeks back and our banquet is this Wednesday. As I look back on the season and compare it to last season the one thing that improved the most over last year was the offensive line. That was stated to me multiple times by multiple coaches. On Wednesday I will express my gratitude to the dedication of the offensive line…my boys…the boys of fall.

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